Mine.

 


Recently had a good friend send me a short clip from a YouTube debate on the practicality of monogamy. The group of four were basically discussing why monogamy is flawed and why jealousy as a concept is frowned upon in all aspects of one’s life except in their love lives. The gist was that wanting to keep someone all to yourself is incredibly selfish. They covered that monogamy in this day and age is safe and is more efficient but not necessarily the right way to go.

Now I’m not an expert on the matter but I feel like it is commonly known that we as a species have moved from wanting to impregnate every female of our species (an evolutionary trait designed to ensure the survival of a species) to rather finding a match, pairing up and staying with them. 

 The need for meaningful long-lasting emotional connections have outgrown a past desire to simply have dozens of sexual partners.

In my personal opinion, jealousy is very warranted in relationships not only that but it may actually be crucial. Now I’m not referring to an obsessive type of jealousy but rather a healthy kind or as close to healthy as jealousy can really get.

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